Not just churches.... but society.. younger society.... have tried to feminize men for several years. Men lose their charm when acting like a woman.... for example.
One of my sons goes to church in NJ. They want the men to “get in touch with their feelings”. My son had all he could take and left. He is an attorney and being feminized did not fit in his male mind. Why can’t they who have time on their hands.. just leave well enough alone.
Men are supposed to be the hunter.. the strong one.. the math mind thinks logically... their feelings are something they know but do not declare it..
a job and taking care of their family is what they do.
woman are the nurturers and the one with “feelings”. if we all made decisions on our feelings, we’d be right maybe half the time. there is a place for feelings but it isn’t supposed to come from the one who logically loves and cares. feelings can be fickle anyway.
I have to tell you about my husband on this subject. He is gone to glory... but he lives on in my heart.
If we were ever in a game where I had to guess at his answers to simple questions on who we are.... we’d come in last. If I was asked what is his favorite color, I knew and would say blue. when he was asked, he does not know what it is and ya never knew what his answers would be.
It would be that way on every question... I would know the answer and he might answer anything that came into his mind. Another reason he would not know the correct answer is he didn’t consider it important. Now, ask him what kind of oil did he use in his car...he’d know that one and I would not know.
a perfect match..? not all the time...