My grandfather, born in 1906, had one on his upper right arm.
It was a heart with a banner ribboned through it. If I recall, it read Semper Amare and my grandmother’s name.
They stayed together for 61 years until the day he died, and she grieved for him until she died 6 years later.
My husband has 5 of them, all on his arms. He is a rock-solid gun-toting hard-working family man who built a beautiful life for our children and me. I thank God daily that he is my husband.
I don’t think tats are the issue, but more the behavior of people that can be problematic.
LOL, I meant on the girls.