Speaking as a Marine Corps combat vet, the military exerts more control/influence over your life, and over the installation of values, than does just about any other career path. That's fantastic if they are training youmg people in traditional American values, but a disaster if they are training them in wokeness.
Civilian government service may be just as bad or worse, but a good bit of the private sector just goes about its business without mandatory wokeness.
Speaking as a Marine Corps combat vet,
Yes, I understand your position and grieve with you. But there is always a remnant, just like in the church. And we need the remnant there more than ever.