I have no problem with what he said, how many times have dims told us to get over it and move on?
It’s been going on 9 years now.
It is time to let go.
There’s nothing that can be done about it and nothing is going to bring him back.
If it has happened in the last year even, I would say the guy deserved getting his lights knocked out. People grieve at their own rate and the first couple years ARE hard.
But 9 years?