Feeling the same here.
Just turned 53 here in Snowy MA...gonna have to look into The Villages soon..
:)
I feel like I worked hard all my life, paid my dues and largely did the right thing. After I retire, sowing some wild oats is not a bad idea. I was very responsible as a young man (which worked out), but in retrospect, I could have lightened up more. Staying mildly buzzed all the time is not a bad option if I don’t have to work. Having mature women chasing after me would not be bad either, as long as I get to pick & choose.