Rapey? I guarantee you that most of these “critics” would never apply the same standards to, oh let’s say, rap lyrics.
They also wouldn’t apply the same standards to their hero, the one and only Bubba Klintoon, of “one free grope” fame.
The sex in the car was consensual. Even when she knew his condom was no good, she said something like WTH. In today’s culture that means YOLO.
And she spent a good portion of the movie thinking she was pregnant, rejecting his offer to step in and do the right thing and marry her and she tells him it isn’t even his.