My ex was 6-1, and preferred not to be. She took many remarks about her height, which I “addressed”. Personally, I like vertically challenged gals! Seriesly! ;-)
I’m 6’3” and ironically, I prefer either taller women (over 5’10”) or shorter women (under 5’2”). 6’1” or 4’11” is not a problem for me. It’s a preference not a requirement and I ended up with someone who is 5’7”.