The problem with wait and see is that you might get covid and greatly increase your risk of dying while you wait. And it really doesn’t matter what the experience of those you know who got Covid was. There are people who will die when infected; you could be one of them. Right now, even assuming all those who died following vaccination were killed by the vaccine (a questionable assumption since you’d expect several hundred deaths among a group that size even if they received nothing), the vaccine has a death rate of 0.002%. Reported CFR for Covid is about 3%, actual fatality rate is likely about 10x smaller or about 0.3%, over 100x higher.
The risk is mine to take.