Thanks, Jeepers! No, alcohol wasn’t (and isn’t) involved. She has been told in the past she needs psychiatric help and that has yet to happen. My mother was lying, freshly dead, on the bed, hospice nurses were here w/me and my brother was wailing at the bedside because he missed mom by about 30 minutes. Meanwhile, she was having a meltdown in front of the rest of us....after hospice left, she continued thru the week wish various hysterical behavior and “illnesses” that made no sense. THe ER prescribed nothing for her as they found nothing wrong. They did Covid and flu testing and all was negative.
I had gotten maybe 3-4 hours of sleep during the previous 3 days, due to caring for my mother in her final stage and couldn’t believe that my sister in law was pulling this on me. It was surreal. Not a word of condolence, no curiosity about the service that I threw together. Really, I want no further interaction w/her. At all.
Well good luck with her. Sounds difficult.