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To: HeadOn

Do you get people explaining things to you in baby talk?

Or telling you why your idea won’t work when they clearly have no clue what your idea even is?

I think it’s awesome you’re able to make a living solving problems. I’d settle for just getting people to quit getting in my way when I’m working on solving a problem. It gets ridiculous sometimes.


32 posted on 12/09/2020 2:14:12 PM PST by Ellendra (A single lie on our side does more damage than a thousand lies on their side.)
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To: Ellendra

Sometimes, yes. Depending on who they are, talking to me that way will get them sliced and diced, “politely”. My wife once told me that I could write a memo stabbing someone repeatedly, and they would thank me for it.

When I am in a new area, the “experts” do frequently tell me that I don’t understand, and why my idea won’t work, yes.

I then make it my mission to prove otherwise, with, or without their help. If they are at my level on the corporate ladder, I try very hard to include them, and often praise them to management for helping. After a couple of successes, and them getting partial credit, I usually have a long-term ally, and a reputation. One of my old bosses used to call me “the plumber” - When things got clogged up, they’d call me to fix it.

And yes - there are legion who just get in the way. I feel your pain.


34 posted on 12/09/2020 5:42:37 PM PST by HeadOn (Love God. Lead your family. Be a man.)
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