I think that when Trump was very young, his dad wasn’t especially wealthy — “old money” wealthy like Getty and Hearst. The big Trump money came later on. DJT didn’t start life with a silver spoon in his mouth like the other guys did. Early on, Trumps lived in a modest house and there was no elegance during the formative years of his life. That could make a difference.
Trumps home til he was 4 was a 5 bedrm home. Age four they moved to a 23 room home. Jamaica Estates has always been beautiful.