Your exactly right. The majority of Americans are happy with their way of life. There is just not the impetus, right now, for a civil war of any type. The system will work. If Trump and his team can prove in court that Trump actually won the election then he will be inaugurated in January. The military and such will follow the rule of law, and put down any insurrections by the left. But reading about Trumps lawyers performances so far I’m highly doubtful that will happen.
If Trump loses in the courts then Biden will be inaugurated in January. The military and the powers that he will accept those results as legitimate. And will put down any insurrections by the right.
If 20+ states secede with 160 million citizens how is the tiny US Army going "to put that down"? LOL.