No he had no clue. They had some problems 6 months ago but he thought they worked past them; apparently not. When he came home and saw the note, my other SIL said he almost collapsed, and he’s 6’5.” He’s devastated and lost, but he never said a bad word against her to anyone tonight. He’s a gem and she’s gonna regret this decision. I hope they can work things out, but they definitely need marriage counseling to learn how to communicate better.
I will keep your entire family in my prayers. All families have issues and yours is no difference.
Disregard the negativity that has come your way via this thread. Some people just dont get it. Unfortunately, I do, as I am living out a slightly similar situation, where my son, DIL and the kids are all living with me and it is a dynamite situation.
Again, may God watch over your entire family, including your SIL.