“Nobody told me the fetus would be buried, nobody asked me if I wanted a burial and nobody got my permission to put my name on a cross,” she said. “I can’t tell you what a horrendous feeling it is to find a cross with your name on it.”
You did not want it — who’s to say that the baby would not have lived - been just fine — healed by God ??? You threw the child away and therefore, lost any say in the matter...
One of my friends had a baby with a heart defect. It was corrected by surgery, and her daughter is just fine now. My friend said her cardiologist was appalled by the number of babies with correctable heart defects who were aborted, especially in Europe.
“We can fix this! We can completely fix this, damnit!”