The dudes an alcoholic. I get that and understand that and I know that for people who are normal in every respect except for their capacity to handle alcohol, there is a solution through the 12 steps of AA. Religious-leader type alcoholics though are a special breed of nut similar to the preacher that comes home and beats/molests his wife and kids. Sober or not, these cats got major mental issues. I’ve known personally a pastor of a mega church busted for sexual deviancy. Their consciousness is really schizophrenic. I got no answers for that.
Some people can drink a gallon of whisky and still not want to sit and watch their wife do the pool boy. It’s not the alcohol.