The other day I watched a movie called “A Woman Scorned,” about a woman named Betty Broderick. Apparently a true story.
Scary stuff. Cheaters beware! It may be a capital offense.
Why do men cheat?
It’s simple - God made us that way.
The whole “Go forth and multiply” responsibility was put on men, not women.
God always wants more babies so his creation never dies out. He put the onus of this charge on men by making them sexually ready merely by seeing nice young breasts, butts, or flat tummies. Because of course, it is the young women who are most likely to successfully bear a child.
In other animals, God used the sense of smell to make sure babies would continue to be created in the species.
In humans, he used the eyes of man, and insured that men would forever chase young women who look good. And especially NEW women who look good, since he also cursed men with the tendency to lose interest very quickly in their current women.
God wants men out and about creating babies! Marriage is a false societal constraint and a human invention that actually thwarts God’s plan, and as such, it will never be completely successful.
Why do women cheat? Who the hell knows?
I got my freshly married Wife a concealed carry class for Christmas.
Then got her a pistol for her birthday.
Nope. Not gonna cheat.
So in other words men and women cheat for similar reasons. Shocka!
Why? One word. NEGLECT. I don’t mean simply cooking and cleaning will do. Living with an ice cube is lonely. I don’t even mean sex.
Why men cheat? The triumph of hope over experience. :)
Because, as shown in studies, women cheat more.
I notice that all the reasons seem to make it the man’s fault.
A wife who loses interest in keeping her husband sexually satisfied, should not act shocked when some other woman replaces her.
Wiring:
Men, to hunt for women.
Women, to shop for men.
Emotions:
Man wants a woman to want him.
Woman wants a man to want her.
Contact:
A variety of connections with a woman, are important to a man.
A variety of connections with a man, are important to a woman.
Jesus:
Why we are here and doing this, matters to the man.
Why we are here and doing this, matters to the woman.
Responsibilities:
When a man has sexual intercourse with a woman, she is his wife.
When a woman has sexual intercourse with a man, he is her husband.
Match:
Some blend of the preceding, works for the man and woman; and there is a good chance for an enduring match, as they stand by each other.