Sigh. I am so discouraged by this...mostly because my wife is all onboard with this.
All I can do is shut my yap and let her wax on about how it is the right thing to do. This is a cause of distress for me, that she feels this way.
Here is what I consider when facing same issue with my wife
13 Therefore let us not pass judgment on one another any longer, but rather decide never to put a stumbling block or hindrance in the way of a brother. 14 I know and am persuaded in the Lord Jesus that nothing is unclean in itself, but it is unclean for anyone who thinks it unclean. 15 For if your brother is grieved by what you eat, you are no longer walking in love. By what you eat, do not destroy the one for whom Christ died. 16 So do not let what you regard as good be spoken of as evil. 17 For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking but of righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit. 18 Whoever thus serves Christ is acceptable to God and approved by men. 19 So then let us pursue what makes for peace and for mutual upbuilding.
Does your wife also agree that it is fair for businesses, churches, schools to be locked down while THOUSANDS are allowed to be in the streets for days on end SCREAMING and destroying property!! At this point law abiding citizens being locked down while THOUSANDS are in the streets is a MOOT POINT!! I have had ENOUGH of this BS!!