I’m a man and I’m devoted to the traditional Latin Mass. What I hate are insipid novus ordo get-togethers which are not a worship of God but a celebration of man.
Most all real men would agree with you.
The Church has been under siege for the past century.
I have at least six Catholic churches in my immediate area but I travel 45 minutes each Sunday to attend Mass because that parish has what I know to be a holy priest.
We must preserve.