Yup. There are endless online resources (especially Facebook groups) for dealing with this stuff, both from the patient’s and caregiver’s position. You’re far from the only people seeing this type of reaction.
I was diagnosed stage 4 signet cell stomach cancer late last year, then of course COVID hit, but we’d already been isolated because of immunosuppression (FLOT). Most folks, including family, headed for the hills, but my wife’s hairdresser ... similar situation.
I don’t know about pancreatic personally, but otherwise feel for you. Good luck.
Just had her first post chemo scan. Now we go again in six months. We have already beaten the odds by 80%. Every day is a gift.