Look at all of the ills that todays society is suffering from due in large part to unfettered sex.
Unwed mothers living in extreme poverty (#1 cause of poverty)
venereal disease(s). N gonorrhea Not responding to any antibiotics
Abortions by the millions
Social, mental, emotional disorders
Etc.
And I was a player until I began to realize just how harmful ‘free love’ really was.
The response from many to your story would be that you got to have all your “fun,” but you don’t want others to enjoy themselves. My reply to that is, if this is so much fun, why are young people so unhappy?