A small .38 Special revolver, hammerless.
I agree, I’ve carried daily for almost 40 years and spend considerable time at the range so my carry is a .45 auto....
But do anyone new to pistol shooting for personal defense a .38 caliber snub nose can’t be beat for its simplicity, reliability and lethality.
Plus they are small and comfortable to carry.
Regardless of gun and caliber, a clear and sober understanding of why you carry and confrontational mindset must be the first step.
Always remember, every bullet in your gun has an attorney attached to it.....
I agree, I’ve carried daily for almost 40 years and spend considerable time at the range so my carry is a .45 auto....
But do anyone new to pistol shooting for personal defense a .38 caliber snub nose can’t be beat for its simplicity, reliability and lethality.
Plus they are small and comfortable to carry.
Regardless of gun and caliber, a clear and sober understanding of why you carry and confrontational mindset must be the first step.
Always remember, every bullet in your gun has an attorney attached to it.....
ditto what dino here says.
.38 has ammo available everywhere. Good power and loud enough to make folks pay attention.
Hammerless is also a good idea as you say you are not familiar. The simple way is best. Less ways for you to screw up.
Good luck.