From my female point of view-I prefer a revolver to a semi-auto-MrT5 did as well. My self defense weapon is a .38 Special my 1st hubby gave me as a 1st anniversary present-it is the one I carry when I need to and it is always close at hand here at home-on my desk or under my pillow.
I also have a .357 revolver that was MrT5’s favorite carry weapon...
NEVER use a .357 at night! The flash from the end of the barrel will blind you for any additional shots - the shorter the barrel, the worse the blinding will be.
Great for daytime self-defense of course.......if you have plenty of range time.......