I have to cross a state line to help take care of my Mom...
and many many other folks as well have similar issues, but imho we _will_ get there—not a question of if, but when.
The longer we wait, the more people will die needlessly because the health care system is overloaded.
Most of them will die from _non_ virus cases. That is why concern about the virus death rates is totally missing the point imho.