My Japanese wife is 56 and has the body of a 36 year old . When we are in the states , and she is out with my sisters or her friends . younger guys ( 30’s ...especially black ) try and hit on her all the time so she tells me . I see Japanese women all the time this age who are as hot as they ever were . Amazing !
Then I suggest you two bury it in the backyard and don't say anything if the cops come calling.
No women age better than Japanese women. THAT is, in my book, one of the undeniable truths of life.