It’s definitely a different generation. I sometimes wonder how my parents managed to raise me to be the extraordinary person I am, when my kids are such goofballs!
None of ours has asked for help with buying a house, but if one did, it could be considered. I put my 22-year-old son’s college tuition on a credit card last year, with a handshake agreement that he’ll pay us back someday. Starting this year, his employer is paying.
I am likewise blessed.
Two adult daughters. College educated. Married. Own their own homes. Did not ask me for anything but help with moving.