Not even close-as I’ve said before, one size does not fit all-there was no distrust in my marriage-especially with our finances out in the open from the first, even though we were far from wealthy-some of us are just inclined to prevent conflict in our most important relationship whenever possible-it is a mercenary world out there...
I’m glad your financial arrangements work for you, whatever they might be-I do not criticize what works for others, even though it may not be my way of doing things...
You are afraid she will spend all of your money. You said so yourself.