I feel ya! My mail box is just under 5 miles from the house, anything too big and it’s a 22 mile run to the PO.
my box is maybe 250-275 feet from the house..
but the trip to town is about as long.
UPS/Fedex drive up and back out.. well UPS backs in and drives out.
I have adjusted where I buy things to companies that allow me to select the carrier.