IIRC, it was Carl Sagan who postulated IF there is alien life we don't want them to find us for this very reason.
I think that was Stephen Hawking.
https://www.space.com/29999-stephen-hawking-intelligent-alien-life-danger.html
Someone discussing this topic on one of the cable shows said that we have the greatest ET story imaginible right in front of us in the Bible. He is of course right. But the ET of the Bible is resisted because He describes right and wrong and demands fealty. We don’t get to make it all up as we go...bummer...
I heard that these advanced aliens had decided to reveal themselves to us, but then saw a Democrat debate and decided we weren’t ready.