This twit is evil and her niece’s parents are stupid to let this nutcase sister/sister in law talk to their daughter.
Adults do NOT know what goes on in kid’s heads and they shouldn’t pretend they do. Kids often keep their worries and fears to themselves so as not to upset the important adults in the lives
Telling a kid they should understand that it’s ok for some adults view some kids as disposable inconveniences is cruel and creates so much uncertainty. Just evil incarnate
This woman has scarred her niece for life.