It has nothing to do with reality and any man who expects a woman to sleep with him on the first date is in for disappointment.
Like hell they don't.
I got divorced five years ago when I was 45. I tried internet dating for a bit and went out with a few women I met online. They were around my age, divorced women most with decent jobs living in decent homes. None were even remotely trashy looking or acting, I wouldn't have asked them out if they were.
I'm not pushy at all on a date and never tried to get anywhere on the first date, I just walked them to the door after a nice dinner with the intention of giving them a good night kiss, telling them I enjoyed it, and leaving. More than once I was asked point blank if I wanted to spend the night. I did in case you're wondering.
It is not at all uncommon for a woman to have sex on a first date with someone she's never met before and for her to initiate it in this day and age. To be honest I was shocked when it happened to me, it wasn't what I remembered from my pre-married life, but I didn't say no.
Good for you!
It is not at all uncommon for a woman to have sex on a first date with someone she’s never met before and for her to initiate it in this day and age. To be honest I was shocked when it happened to me, it wasn’t what I remembered from my pre-married life, but I didn’t say no.
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Thanks for the story...Very interesting...