When you boil it all down, he blames his child.
He won’t “openly” admit that living in a liberal “utopia” is not all it is cracked up to be, because he wants to move to a different liberal “utopia” if he doesn’t reach his goals by 2022.
At the same time, he won’t openly admit that the heartland of the US has better financial stability (lower cost for real estate, better job markets).
The child issue is just another sign of his liberal mindset.
So? Thats what women do. What do you expect from shim?