Nope. John Wayne watches his wife. If she laughs it off and says "no big deal it was all in fun" John Wayne says ok. If his wife is a perpetually offended crybaby John Wayne says "Quit being a crybaby". If his wife is TRULY offended John Wayne asks the guy to apologize. The guy does and says "Sorry I had no idea that it would be taken that way. I am so sorry". John Wayne doesn't kill him for swatting his wife on the butt.
Blame the ‘victim’. She deserved it, nothing to worry about and I don’t care. Chivalry is dead in America. Your answers prove it.