Your theology—or your understanding of someone else’s—is nutbar whackadoodle nonsense from start to finish.
My theology is just fine - and not because I am such an expert. I’m not. But Dennis Prager is, and he would say what I said. Homosexual sex between two consenting adults is not that bad of a sin - there are so many much worse that you don’t slam other people about and you leave it rightly to Gd to sort out. But the sin you find so icky, you (generic you) need to always get holier than thou about around here.