Regarding #2 men having tons of casual sex isn’t good for society either. It leads to children out of wedlock, who have poorer outcomes than children raised in a two-parent family. STDs also don’t care what kind of plumbing you have; a promiscuous man is just as likely to get them as a promiscuous woman. STD treatment then raises health care costs for everyone.
As for #4 I think it depends very much on the woman. Some women do find fulfillment in a career, others just get bored, some women want to be mothers, others don’t. Fulfillment, like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder.
RE: It leads to children out of wedlock, who have poorer outcomes than children raised in a two-parent family.
The liberal’s counter-argument would be that it does not necessarily lead to children out of wedlock as long as you properly use contraceptives.