I friggin’ hate gag-orders some times.
If I were the father, I would ignore the judge. It was ONLY public outrage and the exercise of free-speech which changed the judge's mind, and gave him the ability to avoid the horror of having his son chemically castrated. Now this corrupt judge is offering half a loaf in exchange for threats to shut the father up? No way.
I'd go full blast. This case now has national attention. Let the judge try and penalize you for trying to stop your child from being mutilated and trampling on your first-amendment rights. See how that plays out for her. Any more attention to this, and this judge's career is over - that's why she wants a gag order.
Sometimes they actually help someone that would otherwise say too much.