If someone killed your only son as a consequence of driving on the wrong side of the road, would you settle for an apology?
I would come very near to wanting blood for this. Only the fact that it was unintentional would sway me from not demanding death.
An apology? You gotta be kidding. Prison time is the only thing that can assuage some of the pain, and even that isn't enough.
My observations, the “how” and the “why”, have already been stated in other posts. You are of one opinion, I am of another. I don’t think we will be agreeing on this issue, except perhaps that it is a very sad incident. I wish you well.