i’m married and not allowed to date! But if i was suddenly single, I would NOT be looking to date someone in his 60’s much less 80’s.
I’ve always been with men my age or younger. Now that i am older, it would have to be someone at least 5 years younger than me.
One of the misunderstood parts of the women’s maturity is that they are fully matured at 18. This is a misnomer. The entire package of what a woman is has been determined reached at around 32 years originally from Albert Kinsey in the 40’s and 50.
But a lot of that is because women are still trying to find themselves with their lives owning decisions like marriage, business, and child bearing. They were too busy discovering themselves in their 20’s. Most feel they have reached that in their early 30’s and on. So women don’t get older, they get better as most of the discovery stage has been reached and now they are enjoying perfecting it.
On the other hand, women feel men may not ever mature. Many women feel today’s “man” is busy studying drinking, video games, and “playing” at business. So it seems to take a few more years for men to reach a comfortable feeling of the security, business sense, and experience to be confident enough to be mature enough to please women that are now looking more away from childish fun and forward to a meaningful relationship.
Too many youthful marriages fail due to that immaturity they both have from 18 to 25. So I guess being a real woman or a man is a little more like fine wine and less like soft drinks. The wine gets better and the soft drinks go flat.
rwood