In my circle its the opposite. The husbands enjoy generous amounts of desserts at every gathering and even their drinks of choice are sugary. The men never order red wine or whiskey with club soda. Its always something with coke whereas all the wives are careful about their sugar intake. I dislike candy, even chocolate, but my husband loves it.
Thinking about family gatherings, church and fire department potlucks its the same-the men generally eat more sugar than the women.
Well... you guys are just weird. LOL!