If you are part of the collective A.I agenda where you think all white male Americans should be nice, always smile, while holding their Starbucks coffee as they walk dog, then this will be shocking.
If you are not, then this is a guy just having a bad day, not a big deal.
He was in public, in uniform, making an ass of himself and he got physical with the lady he was with (wife/girlfriend/not sure/doesn't matter).
That is not kosher, and he's got some explaining to do to his chain of command.
This is s guy being an a hole