I am SO sick of any criticism of personal behavior being labeled “shaming”. It’s just one more example how many millennials (and others) refuse to admit that reality exists and you can’t magically transform it into a beautiful princess who eats cakes all day if you’re really an ugly male.
It is a fact that many people piss away lots of money on the daily latte, eat more than they should, sleep around, etc. All of these behaviors have consequences and when a financial advisor, doctor, or whatever points out the consequences of this behavior, he is simply doing his job. You don’t have to take that advice, but the consequences are still there.
I watch people. When I find out what 2 of 3 people have no ability to exercise self control on, I buy that companies stock.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M0yhHKWUa0g