You have it backwards. Family and communal ties create male toughness, self-reliance, and individualism because it creates a reason to endure and solve problems and to sacrifice for others.
Lack of family and communal ties create self-obsessed losers who hold a perpetual grudge against God, the universe and everyone else because they are not the center of the universe.
Self-obsessed losers whine about no one wanting to touch them. Rugged individualists can't keep people away from themselves because people want to be supported by strength.
Concur.