So tell me whats so ridiculous about not wanting to be divorce raped and losing your career to false allegations by a woman? You think you’re so dead on right about this crap as to call my concerns and advice ridiculous.
If you are that incapable of assessing character, then spinsterhood may indeed be right for you.
(Note: I am pretty sure there are a number of high-character women who post here at FR, for example.)