If you don’t want to make a mistake, you should expose the women you date to the reality of who you are very early. If they don’t like that person, they don’t like you. Life is way, way too short to mold yourself to fit other peoples’ expectations. I’ve done that enough times to have finally learned. That said, if she insists that you take her to an expensive trendy restaurant, and has no problem asking for that, just cancel. Don’t put yourself through that.
Life is way, way too short to mold yourself to fit other peoples’ expectations. I’ve done that enough times to have finally learned.
Absolutely right.
For the record, you are far from the only one who has had to finally learn that life lesson.
I’d sooner choose my band T-shirts over some greedy broad.