Any man who is pressing for that information already has his suspicions and is looking for a reason to despise you. She’s better off getting away from him. Write that 2 years off as a learning experience, because he is never, ever going to forget and it’ll come up again and again. He’s an angry man.
-PJ
I agree that he will never get over the issue. I disagree, however, that he is an angry person. Perhaps he has some beliefs on the matter that would compel him in certain ways. For example, she states that he we “nerdy”. Maybe he was saving himself for his wife. And now he thinks she may be his wife. But cannot get over her promiscuity. So this relationship has run it’s course and should end.
This whole thing reminds me of “Cookie Fleck” in Best in Show:
Gerry Fleck : She had dozens of boyfriends.
Cookie Fleck : Hundreds.
Gerry Fleck : Hundreds?
Cookie Fleck : [Thinks] ... Yeah, hundreds.
Gerry Fleck : Well, I did not know that! Not that... Not that I didn’t have quite the reputation myself. I was known by, you know, “some”, to be quite the Casanova.
Bulge : Cookie Guggleman?
Cookie Fleck : Yeah. Do I know you?
Bulge : Does this ring a bell?
[singsongs]
Bulge : “I’m not wearing underwear”.
Cookie Fleck : Bulge? Get outta town!
Malcolm : I’ve banged a lot of waitresses in my day, but you, you, you were the best.
Cookie Fleck : You don’t forget the best.
Cookie Fleck : How many years ago did he poke me?
Actually, he was already gone.
He was looking for an excuse to dump her.
I like that post, I'm going to show my coworker.
TY
LADY
How do you know he’s angry? Why do you think he’s looking for a reason to despise the gal and not just trying to figure out if its time to lock this up more permanently in marriage? I think you are projecting a bit.
Thats incorrect. Its been scientifically proven that people with high N Counts have trouble pair bonding and high rates of divorce. One needs to do vetting.