Posted on 06/20/2019 10:03:45 AM PDT by Responsibility2nd
Deny, deny, deny, even of your Pants are wrapped around your Ankles.
So you’re a slut.
Deal with it.
I agree that he will never get over the issue. I disagree, however, that he is an angry person. Perhaps he has some beliefs on the matter that would compel him in certain ways. For example, she states that he we “nerdy”. Maybe he was saving himself for his wife. And now he thinks she may be his wife. But cannot get over her promiscuity. So this relationship has run it’s course and should end.
She needs to ask him to forgive her past.
And offer to get tested for STD’s if that would make him more comfortable.
Most men don’t realize how easy it is for a gal, even one who is only average in looks, to get laid. It means nothing to them as a form of conquest. Actually it’s the opposite. It is very easy for them.
leaving out the spiritual dimension
A very unwise thing to do.
My physical toolbox contains hammers, several types of wrenches, several types of screwdrivers … I suggest that one's "relationship toolbox" is incomplete with only the H/C Matrix, even though it is undeniably very useful.
Virgin wife? What rock did you crawl out from under?
Going to run downstairs on your wedding night to show off the bloody sheets to your family congratulating you like the Arabs do too?
What nonsense.
I’m nearly 50, and never heard one guy, one guy, ever say my wife must be a virgin when we meet.
A wise friend once told me there are things that matter that you cannot undo. You can always undo being a virgin, but never undo being a slut.
I’ve been afflicted with a plague of eligible 40-something women looking for husbands and families. Puts me in the unfortunate position of having to explain that it’s just plain dangerous to start bearing children at that age and that their ship has sailed.
Friend of mine, his wife is a career woman, she hit 40 and suddenly HAD to have a child. Well, her fertility was already expired by that point and it ended up costing them six figures and two years of grief to implant a child that was her husband’s, but not hers, in her womb. She did give birth to a healthy little girl, but now she’s got a “you’re not my real mom” problem to face for the rest of her life - she is Asian and the child is white.
Supply and demand...
Any woman can get laid at will.. I may not be with the guy she wants to, but literally just can say, come and get it, and some guy will be happy to use her for his sexual needs even if he doesn’t liker her, find her attractive, or anything else....
That’s reality. Fortunately most women do not behave this way, but reality is, that’s really all any woman has to do if she really wants some, she’ll find someone willing to.
Deny deny deny. Never give up the denial
Never date a slut. If you are a slut - date another slut.
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Now that she wants to settle down she’s looking for a nice guy instead of the type she used to service.
At least I congratulate her for telling the truth.
That's (part of) what she did. That's why boyfriend is so upset.
Slept with? Fake news. Give us the facts.
The “hot/crazy matrix” displays only two dimensions of a very multidimensional problem. “Slutty” is another dimension which one must consider.
You mean you took on a football team and you weren’t even smart enough to lie about it to your boyfriend?
Most people are possessive/territorial when it comes to their partner. Just because I know the girl I’m dating is not a virgin, that does not mean I’m ready to accept her having been passed around like the snack tray at a keg party. And no that’s not “toxic masculinity”. That’s human. Plenty of women don’t want a guy every skank in town has had either.
Here is how I see it. Lets say she is 28 and been humping for 12 years. Let’s say one per month = 12 X 12 = 144. Anything above 144 is slutty.
I met one; he wound up marrying a divorcée with kids!
Thanks for the chuckle
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