Did you plant from seeds? Sometimes, the desired seeds never sprout and something else comes up that is cared for like it was the correct plant because the ‘newbie’ gardener isn’t familiar with the appearance of the young plants.
I have seen people grow ‘high heaven trees thinking they were maples, crazy as it sounds.
Part of gardening is the constant learning and then relying on experience.
No. They were farm stand plants. And we’re fragrant when they first went in.