You keep telling yourself that, if it comforts you. But it's not true. Japanese soldiers, drawn from the "ordinary people", showed a very high degree of sadism and a lack of common humanity that defies one's imagination. What kind of people could do THIS?
That's Japanese soldiers, with blank faces and dead eyes, driving a bayonet through a Chinese baby.
Baby-killing is a hideous crime.
Whether done by a bomb, abortion or a bayonet.