Our kids were given grace through their first 4 years of college.
When they graduated, they all left on their own.
Now they all finished or are finishing grad school while gainfully, full time employed and living not only out of the house, but out of the state.
I stressed to my kids that it would be better to develop skills that someone would pay cash for, no matter how bad the overall economy. Skills that don’t go out of style. Medical, Math, Engineering, Accounting, Logic, etc. No Gender Studies, e.g. They did and I sleep better at night knowing they can handle themselves in any economy.