Not only are they afraid of long-term commitment, which one should not have to think long about if the person is the One, but some are psychologically capable of keeping any commitment at all.
If they’re supposed to be somewhere, they don’t arrive, or they arrive late ALWAYS and sometimes VERY late. Sometimes they call to say they can’t make it when you have already traveled an hour and a half through NYC traffic to get there. Sometimes they don’t show up and don’t call at all. If they say they will call you, they don’t. They can only permit themselves to call when they haven’t said they would.
I don’t know what this is called in psychology. I would say the person is signaling, “Don’t ever depend on me. I can’t take care of myself, much less anyone else.”
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Anyone that I have ever come across that behaves that way has always been very self centered and disinterested in the feelings of others. It’s all about them. I have an older brother that is that way.
Those you must run from...