Understood. A lot of hurt out there, I suspect. $20k+ every year to the one that walked out (note — allowing them to be a stay-at-home mom, her wish, adds to the alimony cuz it reduces her resume). Told for decades that “women need men like fish need bicycles” (except at divorce judgement time). Speak simple, known (but unwelcome) truth and get harshly demonized. Seeing men widely portrayed as idiots on sitcoms. Now told that authentic manhood is “toxic”...
All adds up. Expect it to get worse.
We need to get her story.